Anthony Olamide's World

So I sit to ponder on what the future holds for me even after rounding up my Degree Program. I sit to imagine what the next step will be. I sit to think of where am coming from, where I am and where am heading to. I sit to think of what determines my future, and I realized that; My past doesn't determine my future. My background doesn't determine my future. My academic achievements doesn't determine my future. My friends neither the company I keep determines my future. My social life doesn't determine my future. Situations that arises both in the past , and present doesn't determine my future My worldly possessions and achievements doesn't determine my future. My beauty nor brain does not determine my future. Fame and wealth does not and will never determine my future. What people say or what will people say does not determine my future.   So then I thought, what really determines my future? And then I realized that; My future is determined by th

    So many things going on in her life right now but all she can sense is FEAR! As a teenage girl growing into a young adult wonders what life will hold for her. Will it all end the way she had dreamt and hoped? Of course she knows that reality is far from what she dreamt but then the hope for a better future keeps her going. Everything seems shaking but she is standing tall, even when all hope seems lost she still keeps her faith found in God. When she stops believing in herself, she found strength to still believe in God.      She has got a family she loves and cares for, she believes that she is here because of her family and would do anything to make them happy. Many people don't understand her because they feel she is a loner, why would they not feel so when she doesn't trust people for the fear of being hurt and when all she has is FEAR? She tries not to be shaken by the criticisms and judgements she gets from people, she tries to remain strong even in the storm.  She

I wanna leave my footsteps on the sands of time. Know there was something that I left behind. When I leave this world, I'll leave no regrets Leave something to remember, so they won't forget I was here....... I lived, I loved I did, I've done, everything that I wanted and it was more than what I thought it would be. I will leave my mark so everyone will know I was here. I want to say I've lived each day, until I died. That I had something in somebody's life. The hearts I've touched, will be the proof that I leave. That I made a difference and this world will see.....I was here. I just want them to know that I gave my all, did my best brought someone to happiness. Left this world a little better just because I was here. Lyrics of Beyonce "I was here" The lyrics of this song got my heart so much that I had to do some pondering over it during one of my " sleepless nights" . We all hope to do something worthwhi

There is a popular saying "If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything". Some times we ask someone where do you stand on that issue, and he is like "they have said it all, it is okay like that". Whereas in his mind he thinks so and so, obviously different from what the final conclusion was, leaving him in a situation of inconsistency. What actually stopped him from expressing his mind as well? If you really stand for what you think you stand for you shouldn't be afraid to say it, and you should be able to do the following:  SPEAK FOR WHAT YOU STAND FOR: Never should you keep quiet about what you stand for because you lack courage to speak out about it. Many people tend to wait cautiously to see if it is safe before they say their views on issues, why should this be so? If you are standing for what is right and what will be  beneficial to everyone around then you shouldn't think twice before you speak for it, ofcourse, there will

Have you ever had any experience that made you ask questions like "why me?", "why is this happening to me now?", "why am I going through pains as severe as this?" etc. Well this is life and things don't go according to our plans or desires, and when something negative happens, we are moved, shattered, upset and sometimes even resentful to a point of pain and suffering. It surprises me that some people hold on to a handful of negative experiences and bad memories from the past when there is so much to appreciate and be thankful for, I am also guilty of this ooo . You have to let go in other not to allow it haunt you or limit you from achieving your desired goals. We've all been hurt one way or the other, everyone as long as you are a teen or an adult has experienced some kind of emotional pain in our lives but you shouldn't sit and ruminate endlessly about the past which you can not change. Five Ways To Let Go Of The Past: Make Decision To

Somebody said "Life is Strange". I said "Life is full of ups and downs, nothing is ever straight or easy to come by in this life. That is why everyone is struggling to have a better life for himself at least". somebody said "Many get lost in the struggle of life, Many lose their lives in the process, many sell their souls to make it and only few overcome the harsh realities of life and become victorious at the end". I said "We just need to trend softly in the journey of life, take each day as it comes, prepare for any uncertainties and hope to be one of the few that will overcome life and be victors". That was the conversation between someone and I, when I saw this picture on his Display Picture. It is true that we sit down, make plans, wonderful plans and imagine how we will go about the plans. sincerely no one can tell me that when he is making out plans he also added some rough plans or hard situations he wants to encounter in the process

I know you really want to know the secret of feeling loved by others. As a kid growing up, I feel lonely, unloved and feel nothing but self-pity for myself, why was I feeling that way? Am sure most of us have felt or even feeling that way at the moment. You begin to ask questions such as; Is there something am suppose to do that I'm not doing? Why do people look at me like am a trash? etc. In the cause of this, we often talk to the wrong people about our problems and at the end get the wrong solution. The secret of feeling loved is not what you actually think. The secret of feeling loved by other people is LOVING YOURSELF! Did I just typed that? Yes! The secret of feeling love by others is to Love Yourself first. When you don't feel good on the inside, when you don't feel enough love within yourself, when you don't feel smart enough, lovable enough, you default in thinking that trying to get someone or people to love you is the way out. You are like "If he or she