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SELF-FORGIVENESS

 
And so the day started pretty awkward for me, I did something I wasn't supposed to do in the first place. I've gotten over it and life goes on. We all make mistakes and at times we spend so much time putting blame on others and ourselves. Learn to forgive yourself and move on. To be able to forgive yourself shows how strong your inner man is, and it shouldn't be hard for you to forgive others as well.
The truth is that, in life at times, we tend to make some decisions without thinking twice what the repercussion will be and it after effect, not until we've done and realized  we've made a big mistake. take blame for your actions, don't ever, I repeat, don't ever blame others for your actions. It is true that some people might have done or say some things to you that might have warranted your decision to take such action(s), even still you take about 80% of the blame, but my dear, it's okay to retrace your steps, it's okay to begin on a new slate, it's okay to move on and it's okay to forgive yourself.
Learn to make your past mistakes go and keep moving forward or else you will be stuck in one place. "Dwelling on past bad decisions you've made only allows those decisions to keep defining you. Forgive yourself and move on" (Mandy Hale). You are the only one that can forgive yourself and this is the best gift you can give yourself. "Love yourself, Forgive yourself, Be true to yourself. How you treat yourself sets the standards for how others will treat you" (Steve Maraboli)
I've forgiven myself of the mistake I made today and am moving forward, you can do same too and you will have inner-peace afterwards. Least I forget, how was the weekend, hope you had fun? Work starts again tomorrow as usual, be positive and always have a smile on, you never can tell where that can get you to. Have a splendid night rest and always remember that I love you.

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